{"id":76,"date":"2017-03-29T00:42:23","date_gmt":"2017-03-29T00:42:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/?p=76"},"modified":"2017-05-15T16:08:16","modified_gmt":"2017-05-15T16:08:16","slug":"acceptance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/2017\/03\/29\/acceptance\/","title":{"rendered":"ACCEPTANCE"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"redbox\">\n<p><strong>Farishtay Yamin, &#8217;17,<\/strong><br \/>\nSchool of Engineering<\/p>\n<p>I tolerate a fly buzzing around a room. I tolerate an electricity outage. Maybe I complain, but I\u2019ve learned to become patient. The fly irritates me, but I have to deal with it. It\u2019s a fact of life.<\/p>\n<p>My freshman year I prayed somewhere in the stacks of Peabody Library, because I didn\u2019t have time to go back to my room. I carefully chose a secluded spot with no traffic\u2014on the top floor in a far corner. I made a prayer mat out of notebook paper, took a black scarf out of my backpack, and prayed as fast as I could.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo one comes up here; you\u2019ll be fine. But what if someone sees me? You don\u2019t have time to pray the second half; get out of here fast and take your scarf off.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I breathed with relief when my prayer ended. The day before, a man had wandered into my corner, stared at me, and ran out before I could say something. The previous day I saw two girls grimace as they watched my friend pray in a study room. And another time, a girl smirked when she saw me wash my elbows in the sink before I prayed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-dev.vanderbilt.edu\/t2-my-dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2446\/2017\/03\/malaysianstudent.jpg\" alt=\"Malaysian student\" width=\"328\" height=\"400\" \/>Sure, they exhibited tolerance. They were displeased. They were amused. They were condescending, but hey, they let me pray, right? As long as they didn\u2019t rip my scarf off, they were tolerant.But tolerance and acceptance are two different things. When you see someone doing something different, that may be strange to you, don\u2019t smirk. Don\u2019t laugh. Ask questions. You can ask me why I\u2019m praying in a corner of Peabody Library or why I washed my elbows. But I ask that you accept me as your equal. Don\u2019t make another student feel scared to pray in the library. Don\u2019t simply tolerate them. Learn about and accept their identity. Accept their differences.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Farishtay Yamin, &#8217;17, School of Engineering I tolerate a fly buzzing around a room. I tolerate an electricity outage. Maybe I complain, but I\u2019ve learned to become patient. The fly irritates me, but I have to deal with it. It\u2019s a fact of life. My freshman year I prayed somewhere in the stacks of Peabody&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":100,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[32,18,14,27],"class_list":["post-76","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cultural-awareness","tag-mvov17","tag-school-of-engineering","tag-vu2020","tag-vu2021"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":303,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76\/revisions\/303"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/my.dev.vanderbilt.edu\/commons\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}